I always find the ratio of male to female likes on these posts interesting to glance at. I think you have your finger on the pulse of a demographic, but I don’t think it’s the one you think it is.
Hey David! I’m curious to know more about what you mean. My interpretation of your comment is that I don’t really represent male perspectives as much as I represent perspectives that women hold. Is that what you’re getting at?
Close but not quite. I'd argue that you aren't representing perspectives that women hold so much as perspectives that a certain subset of women would really like men to hold. I have more to say on that topic, but I can't figure out a way to say it without coming across as pretty unkind, and while I'm more than willing to be mean to my friends, I don't actually know you. If I had it to do over, I would not make that initial comment.
First, apologies for my delay in responding! But that is very fair. As far as negative comments go, yours is very mild! I like to think I live out everything I write (or at least try to), so there's at least one guy out there I suppose, but I've honestly had some of the same worries you are articulating.
Oof. Really appreciate your open handedness in writing this drew. Even though I felt sick to my stomach while re-reading some of these scenes from my childhood, you were able to help us see the Light that's still there in all those shadows. Grateful.
The OT is riddled through and through with far from perfect crooked sticks. But alas, we tend not to dwell much in the shadows and just focus the positive aspects of their life.
Bill, I'm so sorry you edited it and took it down! I had it on my agenda to read it in full and give it the time and attention it deserved! This past weekend was a weekend full of travel for me, so I didn't get a chance to give it my full attention until today!
If you still have it, I would love to read it and provide my thoughts / gratefuleness!
That last line.
Lore, your kindness is palpable. Thank you!
I always find the ratio of male to female likes on these posts interesting to glance at. I think you have your finger on the pulse of a demographic, but I don’t think it’s the one you think it is.
Hey David! I’m curious to know more about what you mean. My interpretation of your comment is that I don’t really represent male perspectives as much as I represent perspectives that women hold. Is that what you’re getting at?
Close but not quite. I'd argue that you aren't representing perspectives that women hold so much as perspectives that a certain subset of women would really like men to hold. I have more to say on that topic, but I can't figure out a way to say it without coming across as pretty unkind, and while I'm more than willing to be mean to my friends, I don't actually know you. If I had it to do over, I would not make that initial comment.
First, apologies for my delay in responding! But that is very fair. As far as negative comments go, yours is very mild! I like to think I live out everything I write (or at least try to), so there's at least one guy out there I suppose, but I've honestly had some of the same worries you are articulating.
Oof. Really appreciate your open handedness in writing this drew. Even though I felt sick to my stomach while re-reading some of these scenes from my childhood, you were able to help us see the Light that's still there in all those shadows. Grateful.
Janell--thank you so much! I am grateful for you!
I really love this. Thank you for sharing these thoughts.
Wow, thank you for reading. I am a better human and Christian because of your research and writing. Grateful for your presence in this world!
Really helpful perspective, Drew. Thanks for sharing!
Friend! Thank you so much for saying that. It really means a lot :)
The OT is riddled through and through with far from perfect crooked sticks. But alas, we tend not to dwell much in the shadows and just focus the positive aspects of their life.
I am grateful for you and the time you took to respond to my question!
Bill, I'm so sorry you edited it and took it down! I had it on my agenda to read it in full and give it the time and attention it deserved! This past weekend was a weekend full of travel for me, so I didn't get a chance to give it my full attention until today!
If you still have it, I would love to read it and provide my thoughts / gratefuleness!